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Ella Cruz. 19. Las Piñas City. Polytechnic University of the Philippines. Bachelor of Science in Industrial Engineering. make gif

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Words of Emotion

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Words of Emotion

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Everything Love

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Everything Love

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— John Green (via kushandwizdom)

beben-eleben:

1. Your imperfect magnificence.
It’s not hard to find someone who tells you they love you; it’s hard to find someone who actually means it. But you will find them eventually, so don’t rush love, and don’t settle. Find someone who isn’t afraid to admit they miss you. Someone who knows you’re not perfect, but appreciates you as you are. One who gives their heart completely. Someone who says, “I love you” and then proves it day in and day out. Find someone who wouldn’t mind waking up with you in the morning, seeing your wrinkles and grey hair, and then falls in love with you all over again.

Remember, to the people who truly love you, you are magnificent already. This is not because they’re blind to your shortcomings, but because they so vividly see the beauty of your soul. Your shortcomings then dim by comparison. The people who care about you are willing to let you be imperfect and magnificent, at the same time.

2. The right to decide for yourself.
Don’t put the only keys to your growth and happiness in someone else’s pocket. Relationships are not about authority and obedience; they’re agreements of love and respect. You simply can’t live your entire life through someone else’s fantasies. There must be compromise and the space to do what’s right for you, even if someone you care about disagrees. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to loved ones, but don’t lose track of your inner voice in the process.

Never apologize for what you feel and what you don’t feel; that’s a betrayal of your truth. No matter how much advice people give you, sometimes you have to feel things out for yourself, make decisions on your own, experience things firsthand, and build your own conclusions from the ground up the old fashion way. 

3. Your innate human need to be understood.
There’s honestly nothing more intimate than simply being understood and understanding someone else in return. Even when there are disagreements, every healthy relationship contains this mutual understanding – a loving space filled with listening and compromise.

So remember to listen without defending, and speak without offending. Communication isn’t just an important part of a relationship, it is the relationship. And really, there’s only one rule for being a good communicator: the willingness to hear others. Because we do not always need a busy mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.

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— John Green (via kushandwizdom)

It’s when you finally decide to love yourself first that you’ll realize you don’t deserve everything that has happened to you and what she has done to corrupt you. It’s a turning point; that every pain, hardships, humiliation and heartbreak has to stop because you know it’s enough.

 It’s when you finally embrace your own version of being human that you learn to appreciate your own existence.

It’s that moment. That moment when you can say, “I deserve better” because it’s the moment you finally love and understand yourself.

A, I’m happy to finally hear that you decide to break free. I’m proud to see you taking a stand even if it means sacrifice.

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— Lisa Kleypas, Dreaming of You (via larmoyante)
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